PRIVATE TOOL / 04
Words when you
need words.
Draft a calm message that describes behaviour, makes a request and leaves room for a considered next step. Preview it before you send anything.
THE STRUCTURE
Clear beats clever.
01 / Situation. State when and where something happened.
02 / Behaviour. Describe observable actions, not a diagnosis.
03 / Request. Say what you want to change or ask the recipient to do.
04 / Follow up. Choose a realistic next step or response date.
Consider seeking advice before sending a message if you are worried about your safety or retaliation.