Safety
Distance, changed access, a schedule adjustment or immediate help.
CHOOSE YOUR OBJECTIVE
What would actually help?
Documentation
A record of incidents and how others responded to them.
Accountability
A review under a school, workplace or platform process.
Repair
A meaningful change in behaviour where direct engagement is safe and appropriate.
Exit
A plan to leave a setting, account or relationship with support.
Independent advice
Professional guidance on rights, deadlines and risk in your location.
THE DECISION FILTER
Run any option
through four tests.
A
Is it safe?
Consider escalation, access to you, and whether you have support.
B
Is it documented?
Do you have enough factual detail for the channel you intend to use?
C
Is it yours to do?
A trusted person can help, but your choice and privacy should matter.
D
Is it proportionate?
Choose a response that serves your goal rather than creating a new risk.
NEXT MOVE
Put it in writing before you act.
Build an incident record, then draft a message if sending one is appropriate.